My Husband Is Brilliant

So Jacob and I have been working on having more childlike faith. The other night we got to talking about my desire for control and perfectness. These two things do not allow for childlike faith and actually put a lot of pressure on myself and others. Jacob pointed out how needy children are and how we are called to be  SUPER needy with God. All through the day we should be whining and asking Him for things we need. If I am frustrated and have no patience, run to Jesus and beg Him for it. If I really want Gianna to take a nap and she just won't, then I should ask God to give me grace and peace in His plan. I know this might sound like the basics of faith but it was earth-shattering to me. Thank you Jacob for being a great leader of this home and always reminding me of the important things in life.

Happy Anniversary

Two years. The longest and shortest two years of my life. Thank you Jacob for being such a wonderful husband to me. I have witnessed you being a great son, friend, brother, uncle, employee, dad, son-in-law, brother-in-law,  and husband. I love you in all your roles but especially as husband. You are faithful and generous and forgiving and strong and understanding and patient and loving. I don't deserve you but I am glad that God chose me to be so lucky.

And now I reminisce with pictures...

The first picture ever taken of us.

I love love love our love! Thank you and Happy Anniversary Dear!

So Much to Celebrate

In the months of November and December we have so much to celebrate and prepare for. Between Jacob and I's families, we have 5 birthdays and 2 Anniversaries. We have Advent to prepare for the coming of Christ, Thanksgiving, St. Nicholas Day, Immaculate Conception (today), of course Christmas Day, and New Years Day, which is also the feast of Mary, the Mother of God, then we have the Octave of Christmas, and Ty and Haven's new baby in January sometime! Phew.

Today is the feast of the Immaculate Conception. Only in the Catholic faith do we celebrate when someone was conceived. I love it! Fr. Brownsey gave a great homily on this feast day last year. He was talking about how much we celebrate St. Patrick's Day (the patron of Ireland). He said the Immaculate Conception is the Patroness of the US and we should paint our faces blue and die the rivers blue and really celebrate the miracle of this woman who brought us the Savior!!! So we all had blueberry muffins this morning, we are wearing our blue today and we are going to celebrate our Mama. Not sure how, Jacob has a surprise planned. If you can believe that. He loves surprises.

For St. Nicholas Day we have started a tradition of making each other ornaments symbolizing something the other was "into" the past year. We started when we first started dating and we have acquired quite a few so far.  It's always fun to see Jacob's perspective on my year! He's pretty good. I thought it would be fun to share them....

I made the ones on the left and Jacob made the ones on the right. I have improved over the years...

We consecrated ourselves to Mary that year and the  story of our love started.

Jacob was into faith and how it relates to politics and I was getting ready for a wedding!

Our Lady of Guadalupe of course and St. Gianna. And our precious little babe Joseph Emmanuel who we miscarried.

Jacob was painting more and becoming a daddy and I was learning about Our Lady's domesticness. And Gianna was waving to everyone from the womb.

Jacob refinished furniture this year to get to know St. Joseph more and I have been loving making this house a home. And Gianna (don't tell her we didn't finish it on time) loves bouncing and watching other kids jump and bounce. I will have to give an updated picture of this one when it's done.

It's been a while since I blogged. My parents came to visit and we had a wonderful time and even went snow shoeing!!!

How cool are my parents?

Seriously God, you really did a great job with those Rockies!

Gianna prayed her Rosary on the roads up the mountain with no railings!!

And two of my favorite people! So beautiful!

In other news, Jacob and I think Gianna is hitting her terrible twos. Yes she is only nine months. She is starting to be able to reach more and get into a lot! This morning she has dumped over the fruit bowl, whined about toys being taken away, crawled through a tiny spot, and eaten soap. All before 9am!!! I definitely need to watch her more closely now. But she is still a cute little sweetheart. And we love her dearly. Oh and jacob has got her imitating him smacking her lips! So cute. And she loves the 5 little ducks song, thanks to Grandma H.

The Little Things

I have been able to appreciate a few of the little things lately and I thought I would share.

First of all, yesterday Gianna started doing this hilarious thing. After Jacob or I would cough she would give a little fake cough. At first I thought it was coincidence than I waited, coughed again, and she would cough on cue. We tried to get it on video but by that time she was distracted by other things. And today she won't do it anymore. Hilarious!

A fun marriage story is that I always fold laundry which I actually love doing, but for some reason it bothered me that Jacob's socks were always inside out. Mom said she always considered that "one of the for worse's" and just put them right side out for dad. So I tried this for over a year and would get bitter about it every time  So finally, I started just pairing them up leaving them inside out almost out of spite. Ha. Turns out that doesn't bother him at all. Peace in the house again.

I am not joking two days ago our neighbor mowed his lawn. Yesterday.....

I made mac and cheese and cheesecake the other day and they both turned out pretty swell. My cooking skills are developing!

Way Behind

Not sure where to begin. It has been a long time! I had a great visit back in Indiana (Jacob tells me I am not allowed to call it home anymore). Rough adjustment but we have been married almost 2 years and I guess this is my home now. Old habits die hard though. That was home for 23 years!

We went to a beautiful wedding and a Baptism for baby Francis!

Then we were able to have some quality time with Cory and Marie. It never seems like enough time when I am with them.

Then of course time with grandma and grandpa. And my new sister-in-law Haven.

Reading the paper. Sorry grandma no pictures with you!

Ty's wife Haven and my nephew Sebastian showing his cheesey smile!

Gianna flew back to Colorado on the same plane as Papa and Geema and we had a nice but too short visit!

We went to Hammond's candy store and tour!

I love this picture. Papa and Gianna watching football at the pizza place!

And took them to our favorite view for sunset.

And finally I have to say that I have been re-motivated to learn how to cook. Jacob signed me up for a chili cook-off at his office for All Saints Day. I called up Shirley and she gave us tips for the number 1 (of 9) chili!!! That's right I got first place! I was shocked! I made cheesecake that turned out well this weekend too. I want my kids to say "Oh my mom makes the best...." someday.

Bella was Blessed Mother Teresa and Gianna was Blessed Kateri Tekakwitha

Little Pope

I was going to come here to blog about a hundred different things but just thought this was way better. I love this kid!

Little Pope